I think I’d want to date a specific guy like this: Taiwanese American 1 year old than I am Legalistic mindset, well-educated, intelligent, thorough/well-researched INTP 5'8", 120–130lb Bottom or mostly bottom Cute, slim or muscular slim Chaotic good or neutral good These just happen to be some of the specific things that are different from the guy I’m dating now. Only similarity with Roy is weight, practically mostly bottoms, and is cute/slim/muscular slim. And I’m happy with Roy too, just sharing some thoughts here.