Don’t expect hooking up to soothe a breakup

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My ex said the best way to get over a breakup is to hook up. Well, I tried it for our breakup, and it sucks.

I think I was subconsciously thinking that this new freedom letting me hookup would be exciting replace that longing I still had for my ex.

It did not.

I need real friendships/relationships to enrich my life.

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My Secret Notebook

Quirky, curious, and philosophical Asian American gay Ivy League grad living in Southern California.