The next guy I want to date

I just went through rewatching/watching videos of my church singing a song I wrote back in the day. Yeah, I guess I used to be pretty musical. And the song was sung all over Asia, US, etc.

Kind of weird to flip this into gay terms, but it was a reminder that there are a lot of cute guys around the world. And it also took me back to a more wholesome time.

So I think I do want a more domestic, quiet life, with splashes of socializing and adventure.

I want a cute/attractive guy who is happy with a quiet, domestic life. Someone who is satisfied having the comforts of each other at home together, but is also happy to engage in some fun mental sparring, eager to share thoughts when the time is right.

Someone who is down for some adventure once in a while, but doesn’t absolutely need it, who can weigh things and engage meaningfully.

I do want a good, loyal partner.

And I think I’m ready for that.

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Plan of action?

1. From now till April, I’ll keep socializing as usual, but more selectively.
2. After my Asia trip, I’ll go on dates more, but again, selectively, using Tinder Gold to only pick the ones I like, one at a time, to date.
3. No accepting red flags, and openness to traveling to date.

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Summary of things I’m looking for:

1. Attractive (cute, hot)
2. Smart/curious (interesting ideas, gets what I’m saying, adds to it)
3. Responsive/good communication
4. Honest/loyal
5. Funny/playful
6. Good financially
7. Has time/makes time for relationship/people/family
8. Considerate/thoughtful/good-natured