What an ideal simplified life would look like for me
I was gonna say “simplied, happy life” but I realized this doesn’t guarantee happiness, so let me just outline what it would look like.
- Focus on hot body, with pics
- Playing table top games
- Hookups and dates
- Korean spas
- Occasional travel
- Socializing with just people I like or romantic prospects
- Side projects
- Maintaining a clean space
This is already a lot of stuff, and it’s not simple lol.
I already do all of this, but I don’t have enough focus on hot body. This takes considerably more effort for me since I don’t gain muscle easily, and it takes effort to keep fat off. So if I quit work or reduce work, maybe I can focus on this more.
I also don’t really do #8 much. I just don’t dedicate time to it really. And because it’s something I dread, I feel like if I have more time, I’ll pay more attention it eventually.
I tend to start overcommitting when I have more space in my days. #7 will get too busy. I already have a few ongoing things that I need to keep up with, mostly journaling/introspective projects which I love.
And for #1, I added “with pics” because I need to document my hot progression to maximize its use. And I need to get out to places and apps to really rake in the power it yields.
I’m really only 3–4 years left of youth to match a hot body for good results in dating/hooking up. Grig who is 44 said he started losing steam in gay world in 2020, which he was 40 basically. It’s inevitable.
